I'm a laid back but ambitious guy that loves to laugh, to read, explore new things, play guitar (see me on youtube at http://www.youtube.com/watch?v =BxYta9hSFnY), wander around the city and put myself into situations where I can learn. I'm not into sports but keep myself fit at the gym. If you're wondering about my ethnicity, I'm a mix of Sri Lankan and Dutch. I'm a not so very good Catholic -- but am also deeply spiritual and love learning about different cultures and their religious beliefs. I have strong interests in Buddhism and Taoism, but overall I'm a bit suspicious of organized religions. I am a gentle giant at 6'3". I am confusing because I sometimes look a little scary, but am VERY goofy and silly unless there is some reason to be a hardass. I love kids, stop and look at the clouds and at birds and am one of those people that talks to everyone I see including strangers on the metro etc just like they are old friends. I like people despite themselves and being positive (without being annoying about it) is really important to me. I tend to get along better with people that are not set in their ways and can see the possibilities in each day. I spend my private time on civic work in human rights, writing music for guitar, doing art projects, riding my Honda Ruckus, socializing and reading. I looooove to read and devour everything from science fiction and graphic novels to history, hard science, sociology and politics. I'm a Manager in the Federal government working to build sofware and systems to prevent financial crimes or bank failures.