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Looking for a first mate

Male (42) looking for Female Reno, Nevada, United States

I am a recently Single father of two. I have been boldly going where no man has gone before since I was just a little one thanks to my Mom who got me hooked. I enjoy watching discussing and debating things Star Trek. I also LARP on the weekends so if you like a Trekkie who also does the fantasy mi-devil role playing I am your guy. I am very responsible and employed. I am a reserve deputy sheriff and my full time job is a bouncer at the night clubs in the Silver Legacy Casino. I am loyal and very caring however I do not have time for games. I am looking for a serious relationship. Currently I am at red alert with my shields raised. See if your the one to get me to stand down my alert status and lower my shields.

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EthnicityCaucasian / White
National heritageAmerican
Height6' 3" (191 cm)
Eye ColorBlue
Hair ColorBlonde
Hair LengthShort
Facial HairGoatee
Best featureEyes
Body ArtPierced... but only ear(s), Scarred, Visible tattoo
Health ConditionBipolar
My AttractivenessAttractive


Relationship StatusSingle
Has childrenThree or more
Wants kidsNo
Housing SituationAll is calm
Living ArrangementsWith roomate(s)
Wants to RelocateYes
Have PetsCat, Fish
Has a carYes

Education & Employment

EducationProfessional - Technical - Vocational School
SpecialtyMunicipal / Law Enforcement
Employment StatusFull-time
Annual income$25,000 - $50,000
Job TitleBouncer

Leisure & Fun

TV preferencesNews, Documentaries, Movies
Favorite TV showsStar Trek, CSI, Criminal MInds, Law and Order, Far Scape, Deadliest Catch, Star Gate,
Favorite movies typesAction, Science fiction, Comedy, Animation, Horror, Thriller, Adult
Favorite moviesStar Trek, Robo Cop, Lethal Weapon, Police Academy, Day After Tomorrow, Armageddon, Star Wars, Hunt for Red October
Music typesRock, Metal, Electronic, Pop, Industrial, New age, Ambient, Dance, Punk
Favorite artistsEnya, Enigma, Megadeth, Disturbed, ACDC, Def Leopard, Lynyrd Skynrd, 38 Special, Cheap Trick,
Reading selectionComic, Fantasy, Fiction, History, Horror, Humor, Mystery, Science, Science fiction
Idea of funGoing to museums, watching movies, Sword Fighting, hiking
HobbiesArts & Crafts, Sports, TV, Movies, Theater, Travel, Camping, Fishing, Volunteering, Computers, Hunting


SmokerQuitting smoking
DrinkingLight / social drinker
Social behaviorFunny
Friends describe asFriendly
In High School I was a(n)Jock
Sense of humorRaunchy
My great timeHanging out with friends, Trying new things, The movies, Extreme sports, Playing video games, TV, Going to a concert, Going to a museum
Always wanted to trySnow Boarding


Political viewsMiddle of the road
Goal in lifeTo do what makes me happy. To raise my children right and just be happy.

Looking For

Must haveIntelligence, Humor, Sensitivity, Wit, Thoughtfullness
Look for in a partnerSomeone who listens, someone who can debate, someone who appreciates even the little things
On the first dateGo for a hike get to know each other a long hike somewhere beautiful to help capture the mood. Then go to dinner somewhere nice and possibly intimate. Then enjoy another walk afterwards under the stars. Just spend the first time getting to know each other. I think the first date historically has been wrapped up in this impress someone overboard. I think it's better to just slow down and take the time to get to know each other.