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So much for the little training cruise...

I'm a professional writer (novelist/journalist) and single dad, who enjoys reading and writing at the crack of dawn as much as getting out into deep nature or performing down into the city. Some things I'm passionate about include cooking, boxing & yoga, long motorcycle rides, performing stand-up comedy and music open-mics in the Village, meditation, surfing, spelunking, playing guitar, public speaking, indie film, exploring fringe culture, dingy dive bars and exotic food, interesting (and crazy!) people and travel... actually, meeting interesting people is my reason-d'etre - nothing appeals to me more that exploring the diverse, myriad and often unexpected doorways to bohemia and the fringe, and meeting and hanging with the people who live there.

Always on the look-out for someone to embrace, enjoy and explore life with - and dive headfirst into the unknown corners of the world with laughter, excitement and optimism...

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Gaming Preferences

GenresFirst Person Shooter, Action/Adventure, Simulation, Third Person Shooter, Strategy (ex: Tower Defense), Puzzle, Role Playing
Gaming systemsPC, PlayStation, xBox
Top 3 favorite gamesFallout 1 & 2
Mass Effect
Full Throttle


EthnicityCaucasian / White
BuildAthletic / toned
Height175 cm
Eye ColorBlue
Hair ColorDark blonde
Hair LengthBald
Facial HairGoatee
Best featureEyes
Body ArtVisible tattoo
Health ConditionNo special Health Conditions
My AttractivenessAverage


Relationship StatusDivorced
Has childrenTwo
Wants kidsNot sure
Living ArrangementsAlone
Wants to RelocateNo
Have PetsCat, Dog, Other
Has a carNo

Education & Employment

EducationUniversity Masters
SpecialtyArt / Music / Literature
Employment StatusSelf-employed
Job TitleAuthor, Journalist

Leisure & Fun

TV preferencesNews, Cartoons, Documentaries, Dramas, Situation comedies, Movies, Science fiction
Favorite TV showsGame of Thrones; Sherlock; Shameless, Halt And Catch Fire; Enlightened; Louie; Veep; The Last man On Earth; Homeland; Breaking Bad; Adventure Time (!!!); Bored to Death; Arrested Development; The X-Files
Favorite movies typesScience fiction, Comedy, Drama, Documentary
Favorite moviesDark Star; A Boy and His Dog; Fight Club; The Men Who Stare At Goats; Seeking A Friend For The End of The World; The Big Lebowski; Tarkovsky's Stalker; The Fantastic Planet; Safe (the Todd Haynes film, not the recent movie)
Music typesRock, Blues, Industrial, Folk, Punk
Favorite artistsBeatles; Pink Floyd; NIN; Jonathan Richman; Edie Brickell; Lenka; The Buzzrats; Bob Dylan; Fugazi; Leonard Cohen; Sonic Youth; 2 Skinnee J's; Elizabeth and the Catapult; Beastie Boys; Bettie Servert; Nick Cave; Daniel Johnston; Lou Reed; Violent Femmes
Reading selectionNews, Anthology, Auto-biography, Biography, Comic, Fantasy, Fiction, Horror, Nature, Philosophy, Political, Satire, Science, Science fiction, I'm an author
Favorite booksRant (Palahniuk - really *anything* by Palahniuk); A Son of the Circus (Irving); Roadside Picnic (The Strugatsy Brothers); The Electric Acid Kool-Aid Test (Wolfe); The Men Who Stare at Goats (Ronson)
Idea of funMeeting, laughing, drinks, dinner, good conversation, blowing up a gas station, stealing a car, heading west, and then telling each other our names...
HobbiesExercising, Reading, Games, Dining, Religion, spirituality, Travel, Cooking


SmokerSmoke socially
DrinkingLight / social drinker
Social behaviorOutgoing
Friends describe asFriendly
In High School I was a(n)Nerd
Sense of humorObscure
My great timeHanging out with friends, Partying, Staying at home, Trying new things, The movies, Relaxing, Sleeping, Clubbing / bars, Reading a book, Playing video games, Going to a concert, Going to a museum
Always wanted to tryI've got my eyes on Peru, India, Alaska, Chernobyl... a dream would be to wander the old Hippie Trail into Tibet...


Political viewsVery liberal
Attend religious servicesNever
Goal in lifeI've lived all over the place - grew up in NJ (and will defend the State till my dying day!), lived in Boston, Cambridge, The Village and the Lower East Side NYC, a summer in Santa Monica, a few weeks in Spain... Traveled to every state in the continental U.S... had a WILD time in Old San Juan... was almost shot at the border of Area 51... Hunter S. Thompson once threw a glass of Wild Turkey in my face... I've led a pretty *interesting* life, and never back down from things that I find fascinating, adventurous, or even dangerous... Yes, that's not really a goal :)

Looking For

Must haveIntelligence, Good Looks, Humor, Empathy, Sensitivity, Spontaneity, Flirtatiousness, Wit, Thoughtfulness
Look for in a partnerSurprise me.
On the first dateDinner & drinks, a concert, talk and hopefully laugh.

Exercising Preferences

ExcercisesWeightlifting, Yoga